WTF

So, I decided to call this post "WTF" because well, WTF! Apparently, the phone call didn't scare off Mr. Army because he called last Monday on his way back here.  He didn't seem too upset about the Facebook thing, which I think is weird. Personally, I'd be pretty ticked off! He told me he dated that girl about a year ago. You mean, you started dating her a year ago because she posted a picture of the two of you from this past fall!?

I asked him if he had any thoughts on the other messages and he said he liked me and liked spending time with me too. Okay...well.....that's why we haven't seen each other in almost three weeks???  I told him that I know he's been busy with work, but that he can call or text any time which would make me feel better knowing that he was at least thinking about me. I also told him that I didn't need anything to be sugarcoated and that I just wanted to be told the truth. He also agreed that he wanted the same in return. I reiterated again that if he wasn't that interested in me, it was okay, that I just wanted to know the truth. He said he wasn't dating anyone here or back home. I also asked why I don't hear from him on the weekends and got a lame response back. He's busy with his mom or at the Army base, etc....ok, whatever! I know it takes too much time to send his typical one word or phrase text! Ha! I feel like he wanted to see me that night, but didn't ask because I told him I was leaving for Virginia the next morning. I never even mentioned it because we haven't talked, so I think he was a little surprised. He told me to let him know that I got there safely. So confusing!

On Tuesday, I flew to Virginia for the week. That night around 6:30, I was deleting old text messages when to my surprise, Mr. Army called! I was so shocked! Turns out, he was returning my call (or was he???) because he asked if I called and then said he had a missed called from me. No, I didn't call. I felt so crappy saying that and so bummed out thinking he was calling because of what we talked about the night before. I almost started crying! I told him that I was surprised that he was calling. He seemed a little offended. He asked why and I said because of the time of day (since he was at work). What I really wanted to say is I was surprised since his communication is inconsistent! My phone didn't show that I called him but the friends I was visiting with in Virginia, without knowing what the other person said, thought he was calling to check on me, but didn't want to admit it. I don't know. Mr. Army seems to be playing the game well without doing something like that. On Thursday night he sent me a text asking how my week was going. It was very difficult, but I didn't respond until the next evening. As of now, I haven't heard from him. I guess he didn't get that it bothers me not to hear from him over the weekends! Duh!

I'm finishing the dating CD that I bought and plan on following The Rules. Mr. Army seems like a lost cause and I'm pretty much fed up. I just need someone else to date and then I can say goodbye!